It’s not what they call you, it’s what you believe about yourself that becomes reality. God sometimes allows pain to be a teacher. It teaches you about the people around you and it teaches you about yourself. If you ever broke a bone and it is not handled properly, the doctor may rebreak that bone so that this time it heals correctly.  God will allow discomfort in order to align you with his purpose. Even though it is uncomfortable, trust that God knows what he is doing.